Tag: ideology

  • 男人爱他的女人才会去找代替品

    其实男人不花心也不需要三妻四妾,不去寻找代替品的。只要他爱的女人会捉住他的心,一个女人就够了。其实有两个女人是很烦的。三个更不用说了。时常听我朋友们说,” 我老婆这样对我就好了,我也不用出来偷吃”,“有老婆陪我也不用出来玩”,等等。这些话我都听惯了。当我爱上慧时,我为了一棵树放弃了整个森林。意思不是说我花心,我是要表达有慧陪伴我一生就够了。

    女人要知道男人出去玩是因为你们感情出了问题。男人是有责任感的不会为了吵架就提离婚或分手。男人会用理智的方法来解决问题。当问题不能解决,他只好把问题和他的女人暂时放在一边,希望女人会想通。过了一段日子女人还不醒目,男人会产生一种负担造成了一种心里压力。这种压力会让男人在外找别的女人来解脱压力。男人还是很爱他的女人所以才会出去找个代替品。

    当两夫妻感情出了问题,夫妻之间要一起鼓励和支持对方把问题决绝而不是跟对方赌气或闹情绪。这样感情才能维持下去。问题就出在男人和女人处理问题的方式不同。男人会用理智来解决问题,女人是个很复杂的东西,女人会用情感来看待。这样的,夫妻之间的矛盾就产生了问题,男人也会去找代替品。

    可能是好久没念爱了,孤单任我行了那么多年了,久了就失去了人间情感的感觉了。可能就是这样我失去了“情”,我才会失去慧。男人是帮不了女人因为男人不是女人。男人只能呆在她身边鼓励和期待她会想通。我也忘了做到这点。

  • 花花公子的代价

    为什么有句话说男人不坏女人不爱?

    其实当一个男人爱上一个女孩,他会很专一的去爱她,会不顾一切的照顾她。当男人被他的女人抛弃,他会迷失人生的方向然后在从社会撤退。之后会失去再去爱的能力了。

    因为男人付出真爱时是把他的一生希望和未来的计划围着他的女人筹划。他会投入全部的精神,全不的资源,全部的感情在他最爱的女人身上。 所以当他的女人离开他,他会产生被出卖的感觉。就这样男人不敢再付出真爱。

    为了保护自己以后再付出的真爱不再被出卖,男人不会再轻易的去爱一个女人,他会开始喜欢很多女人,开始对很多他喜欢的女人有兴趣但是不谈真的爱情因为他要保护自己不要在给女人偷走他的真爱。我就是这样的一个好好的痴情男人就变成了花花公子。

    如果有个花花公子肯为你哭,你就不要再伤他的心因为他哭是对你表白他想和你有一份真感情。他的泪水从眼睛滴出来时是暗示他回复了谈恋爱的状态,他心里在调整再给自己一个机会在为他所爱的女人付出真爱。

    那滴泪水是他在情场上为了找真爱受过的伤,受过的委屈流出来的。可以说是他的心在流血。因为你看不见他的心在流血所以就用哭来表达给你看。他流泪是想告诉你,他在人海忙忙中终于找到他可以在爱的女人也希望你会给他一个机会谈恋爱。

    男人不坏女人不爱?因为每个坏男人都是痴情的男人,经历过真的爱情也有为他的女人付出过。女人知道当坏男人爱上她了,这样的男人会在她的身上再付出一次真爱。

    如果你遇到这样的坏男人请你不要再出卖他。

    这就是我为什么不舍得放弃慧的原因。

  • 男人花多少钱才是真的爱你?

    我想知道 男人花多少钱才是真的爱你? 你能告诉我吗? 爱情可以不用金钱来横量吗? 把你男人的钱花光了你是不是会离开他?

  • 我们成为了最熟悉的陌生人

    我们成为了最熟悉的陌生人

    如果有一天你能到我的心里去, 你一定会流泪因为里面全是你给的伤。如果有一天我能到你心里去,我也一定会流泪因为里面全是你的无所谓。我们的认识本来就是一个错误,不是吗?

    如果,爱上一个人是一瞬间,和一个人相处需要一段时间,而忘记一个入却需要一生的时间。

    如果能回到从前我会选择不认识你不是我后悔,是我不能面对没有你的结局。分手后不可以做朋友,因为彼此伤害过,不可以做敌人,因为彼此深爱过。所以我们成为了最熟悉的陌生人。

  • 香港始终有你

    Victoria Harbour, Hong Kong

    今天是香港回归十周年,也是我退伍十年了,也是我开始踏进这个现实的社会。

    十年前的我还以为中国回收香港是件坏事,没想到香港回归中国给香港带来了更美好的将来。我也看到了一国两制的存在。 现在的香港居民不象以前回归的时候,不知道自己的民族身份。中央政府对香港的付出,耐心和不辞辛劳的精神,已经赢到香港居民的心。现在的香港居民已经接受了中国是祖国。

    在这十年里,香港居民已经接受了一国两制。在新的环境之下,香港居民也开始改便了生活,开始溶合中华民族的精神。现在的新香港在这个世界舞台已经开始找到了自己新的生存方式和新的角色。

    我在这十年里又有什么收货?我觉得我和香港一样,花了十年的时间来了解在这社会上的人生生活的哲学.

    现在的我找到了新的自己,找到了我在世界舞台的新生存方式和新的角色。

  • 二五而立

    二五而立

    子日:

    吾十有五

    而志于学

    三十而立

    四十而不惑

    五十而知天命

    六十而耳顺

    七十而从心所欲,不逾矩

    我说:

    吾十有五

    而志于学

    二五而立

    三十而不惑

    那我是不是,四十而知天命,五十而耳顺,六十而从心所欲,不逾矩?等我活到四十再告诉你呗!

  • 2007: Year Of The Pig

    Year Of The Pig Backpacking In Dongbei

    2007: A Good Start
    
I am looking forward to the end of the year of the pig because I am expecting this is a good year for me. I have a good start for the year although things are slowing down now, I am maintaining the momentum of my life. I will accelerate everything as much as possible to shorten my ten-year plan.

    2007: What Have I Accomplished
    
The only goal I do not complete last year is , writing the book. Now this goal is number one on my priority list.

    There is nothing much for me to reflect and plan for this year. Nothing much to blog about my thoughts and decisions. My master plan, my goals, and so forth, I have already sort them out during my last two years. This year is all about action, action and action. Focus on it and execute.

    2007: The New Year
    
I am looking forward to the end of year to see what I have accomplished. May my Jehovah Jireh be with me.

  • 男人三十一条龙

    男人的特点-我在韩国济州岛

    年青的时候听人说过,女人十八一朵花,男人三十一条龙。

    我二十来岁时,开始对女人有兴趣了。看到靓美眉会想和她们做朋友。那时后的我不懂事,也不知道为什么一些看不顺眼的男人身边有那么多靓女。年青的我,没什么魅力,没什么男人味,没什么经济能力,也不会泡美眉。在女人的面前看起来好想是个失败者。

    我跟着岁月的成长,走过了人生道路,体验过天地人间的感情。在事业上也经历过残酷的挣扎。在这个民主的社会,我的挑战,我的奋斗,就像关羽千里走单骑的去找刘备。给社会的磨练,我这个小男人终于变成大男人了。

    我三十了。有经验了,懂事了。有事业了,会赚钱了。有丰富的感情,有女人了。

    苦尽甘来,啊!现在的我,要风得风,要雨得雨。

    今天的我,终于体验到男人三十一条龙是一个成功男人的特点。

  • A Premier To Terrorise Singapore (Part 2 of 2)

    A Premier To Terrorise Singapore (Part 1 of 2)

    What is terrorism? How are we going to prevent ourselves from such attack?

    The answer is simple. Do not let technology to be integrated into your lifestyle. Technology only compliments our lifestyles and not replacement.

    Seriously we have to ask ourselves:
    1. Can I contact my friend if I do not have my mobile phone with me.
    2. If I do not have a computer, can I get my document send out?
    3. If I do not have a cashcard (problem passing through the ERP gantry), can I still drive and go to the CBD?
    4. Do I have a problem travelling with public transport without the linkcard?
    5. Can I make payment without NETS and VISA cards?

    These questions sound trivia but will disable our lifestyles and give us hell if our lifelines are depending on it. If your answers to the above questions are all ‘no’, you have a serious problem with your lifestyle. If some are ‘no’, you are still ok. If ‘yes’ is all your answers, good!

    In Singapore, we are so dependent on technologies and if one day not available to us, we will stop our life, our work. I am serious. I have ask around what happen when you computer breakdown or when your corporate network becomes unavailable for a day. Most will tell me, they cannot work. Some companies even have policy to request staffs to go on compulsory leave.

    If one day you are on the street and you forget to bring your mobile phone out or the battery is flat and you need to make a phone call. If you are in Singapore then you are in deep shit because you hardly find public phone on the street anymore. If you manage to find one, you will be shocked you need a prepaid card to use it. Adding more shock to it, you have to buy a $10 prepaid card to make a ten-cent call.

    In Singapore, even you have the key to a car, does not mean you can drive. You need a cashcard too. What happen if your cashcard value is low or the card is damage? You will be as good as a cripple or handicap having a car. So your cashcard is damage and you need a replacement. Do you know where to get it? 7-11 store? Are you sure you they are selling it?

    Recently I am back to Singapore and have been visiting our civil department. All these department no longer accept cash payment. You have to use NETS or cashcard. Some may offer payment through credit card. Sound cool, huh! Our government looks high-tech. Imagine a guy like me back to Singapore without all these cards or expired cards to facilitate payment. I am so handicap and cannot even make a $15 cash payment for my identity card renewal. By the way, why do I have to pay for my identity card? I have to borrow a stranger’s card to make my payment. Imagine a network disconnection in such department. The whole unit cannot transact?

    In our present times, nothing is eternal. Everything is volatile. HP can takeover Compaq, IBM sells the notebook division to Lenovo. New York’s twin tower flatten to ground. Enron’s disgrace. Singapore is a safe place to live, do not mean no risk. We cannot take life for granted.

    I remember once, I park my car at Raffles City. My cashcard is low and I top up at a top-up machine in the carpark. Then come along an American lady making payment for her parking fee.

    She also wants to top up her card to make payment for her parking fee. But her ATM card cannot work with the machine. It is late in the night and there is no customer service officer at the counter to assist her. She is so helpless and rushing to go off to fetch her little child. So I decide to help her by using my ATM card, but she only have a $50 bill and I do not have change for that. In the end, she write me a cheque of $10.

    With all these unspoken problems I mention. How much worst can it be to affect our life if one day a terrorist strikes the electronic heartbeat of Singapore. This is what is terrorism all about in our modern age!

  • Power of Conviction

    When you tell a lie you have to believe what you say is true.

    If we tell a lie with conviction, it will become a truth and the distorted truth will give you the power to negotiate. I am not teaching you to lie. I am teaching you the power of conviction, to persuade someone into believing something.

    When someone start to believe in you, you have the power to negotiate to your advantage to get what you want.