Tag: ideology

  • 找回工作激情-教你怎样与工作谈恋

    职场想要成功就要开始学会怎样与工作谈恋爱?把工作当成我们的恋人,把工作的时间当成和恋人约会的时间。这样原来乏味枯燥的工作也会变得趣味无穷。

    在许多人心理,工作只是为了维持生活的一种工具。能够感受到的只是辛苦和劳累,却换来永远不够多的工资。反正我只是个打工的,做的再多也只是老板收益,没有必要那么卖力。只要我按时上班,完成上司给的任务就好了。凭着这种心理概念,工作变成了我们的生活负担,它是一种苦役和煎熬。如此下去,混日子就成了我们的现时状态。每天上班时疲惫不堪,死气沉沉。下班却像如鱼得水,活力四射。这样的生活毫无意义,虚度年华。

    像这样的心态工作最多也只能糊口,维持生存之道。如果你想要在工作中取得成就,就要学会怎样与工作谈恋爱,把它当成你的爱人。把每天上班的时间当成约会的时间,工作的过程是在与爱人相处。在这中间你感受着爱人的温柔、甜蜜,享受着甘醇的爱。内心充满了激情,一天时间不知不觉过去了,依依不舍的告别,期望明天的到来。

    把工作当成你的爱人,使自己变得有责任心,提高了工作动力。你会发现原来无聊的工作变得非常有意义。这不是工作变了,是你的心态变了。用不同的心态工作,收获也会不同。把它当成你的爱人,全力以赴的去爱。不但会得到物质上的需求,还会得到精神上的富足。每个人都要去工作,与其把它当成折磨自己的人消极应付,搞得自己精神崩溃,身心疲惫。不如把它当成自己的爱人,使我们心情愉悦,激情四射的工作。

    学会了怎样与工作谈恋爱,工作中还会有什么样的困难不能解决完成呢?想要获得更大的成就,就要真正的去热爱它,忠于它!

  • 大灾难-2012年12月地球毁灭是真的吗?

    大灾难-2012年12月地球毁灭是真的吗?

    我在各个网站和论坛都看到关于2010年世界末日到来的消息,刚开始我也不信,但是看多了不觉得就有些毛骨搜然,人类大灾难真的要来临了吗?

    例如,水井头骨之谜中说道2012年12月太阳下山后,世界变化,只有非洲和中国西部地区部分人存活;科学预测2012年地球磁极颠倒,前几次分别导致了冰川时代和大洪水事件;台湾一名学龄前班的孩子突然说起古玛雅语,大概意思是说2012年要净化地球。

    无缘无故消失的玛雅文明,玛雅人在一瞬间就消失了,谁也不知道他们去了哪里,玛雅人给我们留下太多问题了,他们的预言百分之99都变成了现实。星象上也说2012年将出现大十字,土木相冲,日月相冲,这代表着流血和死亡。

    这些科学根据和预言不得不让我相信起来,2012年很快,还有三年的时间就到了,如果真的是世界末日,那在这三年之中,我要把我所有想做的事情都做完。可是,有些事并不是我想做就能做到的,我还很年轻,我还渴望着有一天可以和我爱的人穿上婚纱走进结婚的礼堂,想要拥有一段幸福的婚姻,

    如果真的是世界末日,在这之前我能和喜欢的人在一起,实现我的心愿那也足够了。不知道到时会发生什麽样的事情,地球会变成甚麽样子,让我们用惊奇的心情等待着它来临吧!

  • 头痛的问题-失眠的原因是什麽

    最近不知怎麽了?每天晚上一到了睡觉时间我就有一种烦躁的感觉,躺在床上翻来覆去的,怎麽也睡不着,脑袋里面不停的浮现着一个又一个不同的画面。就这样我又一次失眠了,我左思右想,到底失眠的原因是什麽呢?

    有人说是因为工作压力太大,用脑过度;也有人问我是不是睡觉的时候经常把电脑,手机类的东西放在床边?因为辐射太大的问题,影响了脑电波的正常运作;还有人说是因为时差问题,或白天喝了太多含咖啡因的东西造成的等等。

    就这样,我每天晚上到了要睡觉的时间心理不由自主的就会有一种恐惧感。总是担心睡不着怎麽办?几乎每次都要吃安眠药之后才会慢慢的入睡。但是,就算是睡着了,也会很容易醒来,哪怕是一点点的声音也会惊动我。就这样,我好像被安眠药控制了一样,每天都是靠吃药才勉强进入睡眠。让人头痛的失眠就这样缠绕了我整整一个月,整个人好像一下子老了好几岁,看到镜子里一天天憔悴的我,心想不能再这样下去了。

    后来,我听了朋友的劝说就去看了医生,但是医生并没有跟我开药。他只是问我,最先失眠的那一天是什麽状况?吃安眠药也只是暂时的调理,不能长期使用,这会让你对他产生依赖性。所以最好的办法就是找出你失眠的真正原因,再想办法去克服它。

    一般都有这两种情况,例如,自己的心理因素,就是因为某些原因,自己给自己太压力造成的,包括家庭生活,工作压力等;生活习惯因素,就是睡前喝了含咖啡因的饮料,做太多的运动,过了睡觉时间等。

    这两者最重要的还是个人的心理因素,所以睡前尽量放松自己的心情,多听听音乐,看看书,不要想太多烦恼的事情,无论怎样都不要吃安眠药,这样你潜意识里都认为你不吃安眠药就睡不着,那更不用说,肯会更难入睡。然后每天晚上注意自己的睡觉时间,按时睡觉,还要注意自己的生活习惯。就这样,慢慢的自我调理,很快我就摆脱了失眠的痛苦,再也不用烦恼它的原因是什麽了。

  • 云顶高原的第一天:今年要做到的三件事

    爸妈都老了,我的人生又到了一个转换站。心,一天一天的在调整他们会离开我的那一天。不知道失去爸妈的感觉是怎么样的。我猜我因该会很难过,很痛心,很不舍得,会在床边 一边哭着,有话要说可是又说不出。

    时间不等人。去年妈突然大病,爸又中风。不知道今年又会发生什么事,也可能会是白发人送黑发人。今天,明天,过几天,我都算不出将会发生什么事。想了两个多月了,2010年该怎么做,怎么应付算不到的未来。今天我还是没想通也没方案来应付这个无限的天空,算不完的时空。我的未来会是怎么样,我不知道。我爸妈什么时候去世,我也不知道。我现在唯一能做的就是把我现在拥有的时间好好的利用,和我爸爸妈妈在云顶高原一起过春。

    今年要做到的其中一件事就是和爸妈一起度过一个美好的假期。

    刚买了飞机票,剩的时间不多了,赶紧收拾包包,赶去澳门搭明早的飞机。

    过春在云顶:
    云顶高原的第二十天:最后的离别
    云顶高原的第十九天:色八裸汉捞女生
    云顶高原的第十八天:我该回去了
    云顶高原的第十七天:世上只有妈妈好
    云顶高原的第十六天:没钱也可以潇洒
    云顶高原的第十五天:奶奶你好吗?
    云顶高原的第十四天:再给我一次的爱上你
    云顶高原的第十三天:跟周润发学泰语
    云顶高原的第十二天:合艾也有舞狮看
    云顶高原的第十一天:泡上一个变性男人
    云顶高原的第十天:就在这玩两天吧!
    云顶高原的第九天:让我回忆 八十年代的新加坡
    云顶高原的第八天:我的闪耀希望 不在遥远了
    云顶高原的第七天:新年快乐!祝老爸老妈身体健康!
    云顶高原的第六天:这几天的运气怎么那么差
    云顶高原的第五天:所以今年的春节我赶回来和他们
    云顶高原的第四天:好玩的室内主题公园
    云顶高原的第三天:赌博真的可以练头脑吗?
    云顶高原的第二天:幸福的口感
    云顶高原的第一天:今年要做到的三件事

  • Fulfilling Your Vision Mission Statement

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    Do you really believe in the vision you conceive? Your mission statement you created, do you do it for the sake of doing it because you read it somewhere you need a mission statement to complete your vision?

    You have to feel the vision. If you can feel it in your blood then that is a vision that you are truly motivated to do it. A real vision will bring you inner joy in your heart, like a baby in a pregnant woman. Your unborn vision will kick you and bring you little excitement just like a pregnant mother feels in her tummy.

    Your friends may not understand you, mistaken you in some ways for your stupidity in believing in your vision but deep in your heart, you can feel the heartbeats of your vision. Like a rushing flood, rushing your blood and get your whole body excited, you can feel the tingle in your skin. Truly you have an unborn vision waiting for you to give birth.

    The next thing to do is to find the right people to help you. One very important step is to find a suitable mentor that have the knowledge or experience to help you achieve your goals. Having a mentor is like going to a foreign country with a local tour guide. You may have one or more, depending on the scale of your project.

    You need to build a support group, the inner circle of friends, like the night of the roundtable. This is the group that will support and motivate you until you fulfill your vision. Find people that are close to you and can be fully trusted. It has to be people with different skill set to compliment you. Things you are not familiar with, they are the one that will hold your hands firmly to help you. Choose wisely. This is the the circle of friends that will help or break you.

    After choosing your team, the inner circle of friends, you need to craft out a plan in detail and how you can fulfill it with your available resources and with the support from circle of friends. At this stage you may want to add a few more trusted friends or remove from it. Get your mentor to be involved, show him your proposal if you have. Redraft your plan based on his commentary and show the redrafted copy to circle of friends for more stringent comments. Redraft until you are satisfy and your skin tingle again.

    Every plan needs to spend money or some kind of resources, be it money, time or special skills. Based on my experience, you have to make provision, allocate at least three times the resources you need. For example, you want to start a business and need a capital of ten thousand dollars. You have to have at least thirty thousands in reserve. You never know what will happen when you start executing your plan. Without three times or more than the projected resources, go back to your planning table again.

    Time to take action now, unleash you passion, get your hands dirty, make the phone call if you have too. Do whatever you need to get it started and going. Set yourself a time frame for evaluation. Approach your mentors and circle of friends periodically. Create the synergy to get yourself highly motivated and in tip top condition so that you will not lose your focus on the vision mission statement.

    At this stage you are going through the labour of pain. Take heart, press forward, the time will come and you will see your vision mission statement fulfill.

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  • Creating a Vision and Making it a Reality

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    Everyone dreams. It is the only thing in life that is free. However, most people are just stuck on their dreams and are not stepping up to live it. If you are already tired of just dreaming, then you have to start creating a vision. If you have a concrete vision of your life, you will be able to fulfill that dream in no time.

    What are the steps to creating a vision? What is your most important dream? When you are determining your dream, make sure that it is something that you are passionate about so that it can be attainable.

    Create a vision. Once you have determined your dream, create a vision statement like “a vision to serve the country by giving back”.

    Imagine the dream. They always say that when you believe, you actually become. So, visualize your self fulfilling that dream. Imagine the life you will lead if you have fulfilled that dream or vision.

    What are the effects? After your dream has been fulfilled, imagine the after effects of it. What will happen to your life after the dream was fulfilled?

    Make a plan. Now, it is time to make a plan. Organize your thoughts and think of the ways wherein you will be able to make this vision attainable.

    Take action now. You can have the greatest vision in the world but if you do not take action and fulfill it, it is as good as day dreaming. Do not procrastinate. Take action now.

    Always remember that everything is possible in life if you just believe. But believing is not the only thing that is important. You should create that vision and that dream into reality as well.

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  • How to Write Mission Statement That Will Inspire You and Others

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    Mission statements are usually just for organizations and establishments like schools and companies. However, if you want to have your own mission statement in life, you can do it too. A statement is like your motto in life that will lead you to greater heights. If you are ready, here are some tips on how to write a good one.

    Which is the most important thing to you? In a person, there are so many aspects of life. So, before writing your statement, get a pen and jot down the things that are important to you. Example, love, family, school, career, business, friendship, religion and so on. After writing it all down, rank now which one is the highest and which one is the lowest.

    Write a statement for each. Once you have ranked all the important aspects of your life, you are now ready to write a mission statement for each aspect. Make it short and simple. For instance, if your most important aspect is about your family, you can write “to have a loving relationship with my family until the next and the next generation”.

    Combine it all together. Once you are done with number two, look at your short and simple missions, which ones are really good or important missions? Combine all the missions together to make one cohesive statement for your life.

    When you have written your mission statement, it will inspire you to fulfill what you have convey in your statement and your life will be different. And then you can tell and inspire other people about how to write mission statement.

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  • 如果 我有老人痴呆症

    如果 我有老人痴呆症
    踩我空间的你们 都会问我 为什么我对慧 还不放手,怎么还老是写 我和她之间的事。

    我妈妈两年前病了 就像她过世的妈妈一样的病。我爸爸现在的状态 就像我过世的公公一样。我也怀疑 早有心理准备 可能也会遗传给我。就在这时候 我开始把我现实中的生活 详细的纪录,开心的,不开心的,特别的,有趣的,等等,只要是美好的回忆,就会写在我的博客。

    因为我知道 如果有一天 我也得了老人痴呆症,什么都不记得的时候,我的博客就是我最好的回忆。等到那一天,看我拍过的照片,我写过的文章,原来 我以前 是那么潇洒的。

  • 我也是一个老演员

    我也是一个老演员。这部片该有十年了。这电视台作品是供应泰国,柬埔寨,那一区的观众。

  • 2009 新年旺旺!

    新年旺旺!

    祝我好朋友们,我所有的情人,网友们, 仇人们,讨厌的人,2009 新年旺旺!心想事成!身体健康!黄金满堂!